I was having dinner with a very close friend a few hours ago when the nightly news informed us that Barack Obama had left his Church. As in, he quit, ripped up the membership card, walked out of Reverend Wright’s life for good. I listened to Obama explain that his pastor had said some things that do not belong in politics or the pulpit, and that was that. He was gone. Pardon me the cynicism, but I don’t believe for a second that Obama left out of principle. Reverend Wright is not a stranger to him, and even though he didn’t attend all of his sermons the very first one, which he writes about in his book, was controversial enough for him to have known what he was getting into at that church from the beginning. For anyone to suggest that Obama wasn’t aware of that church’s going-ons is disingenuous or naive.
I have heard some people suggest that Obama never really believed in the teachings of that church, that he was merely using that influential house of worship to advance himself politically in the city of Chicago, but I take him at his word when he says that his character was forged there, where he was married, where his children were baptized, where he found Jesus Christ and himself. If these things were not true and he were merely using that church and its people to start a political career for the last twenty years, then that would be absolutely repugnant and it is unthinkable that someone could be so cynical. Obama’s withdrawal from the Church is supposed to kill the story that his advisors rightly believe to be an albatross around his neck heading into the general election, and it is meant to separate him from Wright forever. It is a political decision, and it is indefensible. This is an awful way to treat a man who is better than a father to you, and Obama ought to be ashamed of himself.
My hero Harry Truman’s career was made by a political boss named Tom Pendergast in Missouri. This man was despised around the country and when Truman gained election to the Senate he was derided as “The Senator from Pendergast.” Truman’s own integrity was beyond reproach, but Pendergast was an embarrassing friend to have. In 1940, Pendergast was thrown into prison for racketeering and everyone whom he had helped gain power or money over the years turned on him once he had lost all of his influence. Shortly after he came out of prison in 1945 he died a lonely death, and no one except the family and Harry Truman attended the funeral. Truman did this knowing he’d be hammered by the press but for Truman that was never a problem: it was important to pay respects to this man, even if he was a convicted felon, and he never spoke a word against his old friend before or after his death. (This is only one of several great Truman-friend stories, along with his great quote that “friends don’t count in fair weather. It is when trouble comes that friends count.”)
This is not the sort of loyalty George W. Bush seems to insist upon, where even questioning your friends is disloyal. This is the sort of loyalty we should all insist upon with our friends. We all do things we regret, and we all make mistakes. If we can not count on our friends to be with us in those times, who can we count on? If we can not count on our friends to stand by their closest friends, how can we count on them to stand by us? If we can not be counted on to stand by our friends, how can we be counted on to stand by anyone? I have never had to renounce a friend and I hope that I never do, because I wouldn’t unless that friend were guilty of some great moral or legal crime. Wright is not a stranger to Barack Obama, someone he’s met once or twice, and so it is not right for Obama to treat him like he were some rich man who he met for twenty minutes at a fundraiser. It simply is not right to treat your friends that way.
I’m disturbed by the fact that Barack Obama would tell a man who is like a father to him to get out of his life because he holds ridiculous views. If he weren’t running for President, it wouldn’t even be an issue. Obama himself had said that he could not renounce Wright anymore than he could renounce his own grandmother and now here he is, leaving his church to avoid hard questions and criticism because it became too much for him. What sort of a man would do such a thing to the man who is like a father to him? Obama likes to pretend that he is different than most politicians but he is just another politician, and this shows it. I’m sorry to hear that because a part of me very much wants to believe in my Senator but I can’t put my trust into a man whose closest friends can’t trust him not to get out of the kitchen because he can’t stand the heat. That’s no good.